Consider Marriage Markets, by June Carbone and Naomi Cahn. They write,
At the top, there are more successful men seeking to pair with a smaller pool of similarly successful women. In the middle and the bottom, there are are more competent and stable women seeing to pair with a shrinking pool of reliable men.
. . .the conclusion is short and simple: it’s the economy, stupid. And any analysis or proposed solution that does not take growing inequality into account is based on a lie.
Thanks to a commenter for mentioning the book.
I will read it with some skepticism. I certainly see a strong arrow going in the other direction, from assortative mating to inequality. If there is a reverse causal arrow, then that implies a sort of positive feedback loop.
I am not sure what they mean by the first sentence quoted above. If you define success as “college-educated,” then it is the sucessful women who have to compete for a relatively small pool of men.
Consider the following alternate universes:
1. Boys grow up in households with their fathers in households with decent finances.
2. Boys grow up in households with their fathers in households with fragile finances.
3. Boys grow up in households without their fathers in households with decent finances.
Pretty much everyone assumes that in alternate universe (1) we would have fewer problems than we have today. If the authors really believe that “it’s the economy, stupid,” then it seems to me that they either believe that (3) would work about as well as (1) or that income redistribution would be sufficient to create (1).
I read conservatives as saying that scenario (2) leads to boys who can function well as adults, and that scenario (3) does not. And conservatives see income redistribution as leading to (3) rather than (1).