The story is behind a WaPo paywall.
1. It is not a story about sexual frequency. It is about the incidence of people who have not had sex with a partner in the past year. Call these folks abstainers. Sorry, Tyler, but I disagree with Christopher Ingraham that it is amazing that there are more abstainers in the 18-30 age bracket than among fifty-somethings. My guess is that the proportion of married people is quite a bit higher among 50-somethings, and if you’re looking for abstainers, you are more likely to find them among people who are not married. To be blunt, the survey does not say that older folks are having more sex. It just says that fewer of them are abstaining for a year.
2. Robin Hanson also could not resist commenting.
it won’t at all do to point to effects that are constant in time, such as people not always telling the truth in polls, or men having lower standards for sex partners. It also won’t do to point to changes over this time period that effected [sic] all ages and genders similarly, such as obesity, porn, video games, social media, dating apps, and wariness re harassment claims. They might be part of an answer, but can’t explain all by themselves. To explain an unusual burst over the last decade, it is also problematic to point to factors (e.g., computing power) that changed over the last decade, but changed just as much over prior decades.
3. Here’s a way to simplify the data in one of the graphs on Robin’s post, which looks at people in the 18-30 age bracket. Suppose we had 100 heterosexual men and 100 heterosexual women. Ten years ago, there were 10 abstainers of each gender. Among the more recent cohort,there are 28 male abstainers and 18 female abstainers.
4. Here’s a way to think about this. Ten years ago, there were 10 female abstainers, each with a “partner” who abstained also. In the more recent cohort, the number of abstainer “partnerships” increased by 8. Some of that could be a decrease in marriage rate, but how much could the marriage rate of have fallen in the last decade?
5. Another interesting development is that there are now 10 male abstainers who don’t have a “partner.” To put it another way, there are now 82 women who did not abstain and only 72 men who did not abstain. (Of course, ten years ago, there were 90 non-abstainers of each gender, so definitely don’t think of this as women getting friskier.) Who did these extra ten women find? Older men? Men who already had non-abstained with someone else?
6. Robin writes,
it seems that. . .the latest age cohort has switched to a new sex culture wherein the less desirable half of young men are now seen as even less desirable by young women than previous cohorts would have seen them. And within this culture it is seen as more acceptable for young women to share the more desirable half of young men
I agree that this is likely the basic story, but I would not overstate it. It could be that we should be talking about the less desirable quarter of the male population. And the number of women who are ok with sharing desirable men may still be very small. My arithmetic exercise suggests that the proportion of women who are sharing (in the sense that they have a partner who in the past year has had additional partners) is 10 percent, and a lot of that may not be sharing by choice.